If you focus on my weaknesses more than my strengths

If you feel no remorse for lying

If you cannot take accountability for your actions

If you apologize and do not work to change your behavior afterwards

If you can go to bed with me crying

If you put me in situations that threaten my sobriety

If you talk shit on my friends

If you encourage me to lie to my family

If you use my past failures as a weapon

If you think it’s okay to touch someone without their consent for ANY reason

If you talk badly about me to others

If you choose money over morals

If you put people down to make yourself look better

If you use people for your own gain

If I tell you something hurts me and you keep doing it

If you take pleasure in watching women be punished and demoralized

If you get mean or unpredictable when you’re drunk

If you think having a conversation is an argument

If you reject the concept of mental illness as a real thing

If you disrespect me

If you shame me

If you think I’m too much

If you think I’m not enough

If you continuously promise things and choose to not follow through

If you blame me when I am the one who’s been wronged

If you tell me other people see me as less than I am

If you ask me to compromise my values

If you see strength in a woman as volatility

If you try and convince me there’s something wrong with me when I call you out

If you want to be in a relationship that lets you act like you are still single

If you dismiss my feelings as invalid

If you say you love me but make me feel unloveable

Stay the fuck away from me.